10% of Life is Made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by How you react...
What does that mean?.....
We Really do not have any control over the 10% of what happens to us. You determine the other 90%of your life..... By your reaction.
Simply say, You cannot control a Red Light. However, you can control your reaction. Taking a every day life situation....
You are having breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your Business shirt.
You have no control over what has just happened, What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse & Scold. She breaks down in tears, You criticize your wife for placing the cup too close to edge, A short verbal battle, you came back with changed shirt, still to see your daughter sobing and trying to finish her breakfast. she already have missed the school bus.
You rush to drop her speeding in the school Zone, paying a traffic fine you arrive at school and your daughter runs into the building without saying Goodbye.You arrive late to office and realize you forgot your bag.... your day started terrible and continues to get worse and worse.
Why did you have a Bad day? How you reacted in the first minute is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have happened.....
You have reacted gently saying: "Its OK Honey, You just need to be more careful next time."
you came back with changed shirt, to see your daughter getting ready for the bus. She turns and waves as she board. You arrive at office early.
You really have No control over 10% of what happens in your life. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, problems and headaches not realizing the 90/10 principle.
If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first... Maybe we will end with empty hands but our heart will be filled with love.... All those who love life, have the feeling marked in their hearts.
What does that mean?.....
We Really do not have any control over the 10% of what happens to us. You determine the other 90%of your life..... By your reaction.
Simply say, You cannot control a Red Light. However, you can control your reaction. Taking a every day life situation....
You are having breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your Business shirt.
You have no control over what has just happened, What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse & Scold. She breaks down in tears, You criticize your wife for placing the cup too close to edge, A short verbal battle, you came back with changed shirt, still to see your daughter sobing and trying to finish her breakfast. she already have missed the school bus.
You rush to drop her speeding in the school Zone, paying a traffic fine you arrive at school and your daughter runs into the building without saying Goodbye.You arrive late to office and realize you forgot your bag.... your day started terrible and continues to get worse and worse.
Why did you have a Bad day? How you reacted in the first minute is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have happened.....
You have reacted gently saying: "Its OK Honey, You just need to be more careful next time."
you came back with changed shirt, to see your daughter getting ready for the bus. She turns and waves as she board. You arrive at office early.
You really have No control over 10% of what happens in your life. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, problems and headaches not realizing the 90/10 principle.
If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first... Maybe we will end with empty hands but our heart will be filled with love.... All those who love life, have the feeling marked in their hearts.
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